Violence is not a solution: choose the lawful path

Disagreements can arise within families, educational institutions, workplaces and everyday interactions. Attempting to resolve them through force, threats or humiliation violates another person’s rights and safety. Violence does not solve the problem; it creates further consequences, including physical injury, psychological distress and legal liability.

Violence is not limited to hitting or causing bodily injuries. Intimidation, coercion, repeated humiliation and unlawful restrictions on freedom can also cause serious harm. Legislation recognises physical, psychological, sexual and economic forms of violence. Describing such conduct as “discipline,” “jealousy” or “a private family matter” is inconsistent with respect for human dignity.

Depending on the circumstances, violent conduct may lead to administrative or criminal liability. The legal assessment considers the nature of the conduct, culpability, harm caused and other statutory elements. Anger, personal disagreements or a close relationship do not, by themselves, remove responsibility.

If a conflict is escalating, stop insults and threats and pause the conversation. Expressing concerns without pressure, respecting personal boundaries and seeking professional support where needed can help resolve disagreements peacefully. However, where threats or ongoing abuse exist, the person experiencing violence must not be pressured into a face-to-face meeting or reconciliation. Their safety comes first.

If you experience violence, move to safety where possible and tell someone you trust. Contact the police if there is immediate danger, and obtain medical assistance for injuries. Preserve threatening messages, existing recordings and medical documents only when it is safe to do so. You do not have to wait for serious injuries before seeking help.

The law recognises the right to defend oneself and others against unlawful attacks. Defence within the lawful limits of necessary defence does not constitute a crime. However, taking revenge or trying to punish someone after the danger has ended is different from defending against an attack.

A person experiencing violence needs support and respect, not blame. Listen to them, protect their privacy and support their access to appropriate assistance. Choosing the lawful path means putting human life, dignity and safety first.